Saturday, December 30, 2017

Our Children Are Not Dollar Signs!



In 2015, an opportunity was presented to me to step into the educational arena. I had not gone to school for a teaching degree or even had any desire to go in that direction at all. It all started when I was asked by my son’s teacher to be one of the chaperones on a field trip. I declined at first but changed my mind at the last minute when my wife said that she would go with me. While we were there, one of the students that I knew from my friend’s church was having an issue with another student. I pulled him aside to talk to him, not realizing that one of the teachers saw me. Once I was done, she ran up to me and asked, “Would you like a job at the school?” I promise you I thought she was joking but I said sure. She gave me her email address and asked me to send my resume. You see at that time, I wasn’t working in the market place because I was doing full-time ministry. So, to say that I was stunned was an understatement. Through much personal prayer and friends praying with me, I understood that God was sending me there because it was a life and death situation and my assignment was to speak life into our “Now Generation”. 

I work as an ISS instructor which is short for “In School Suspension”. ISS is basically an alternative discipline measure for students having behavioral issues in the classroom. This gives them the opportunity to get back on track without being sent home. When done correctly, it is really an effective tool to use with students. It provides a safe environment for them to learn from their mistakes by having healthy dialogue and being transparent. Coming up on 2 years now, I have been asked many questions from my students like “Why are you here?” I would simply reply that I was sent here to help you. I will never forget hearing some students saying that I was just here for the money because that is the only reason why these teachers are here. Now you may say oh that’s just a kid who don’t know any better talking out the side of his head. However, I respectfully disagree. Our children know when they are being loved or just tolerated. It didn’t matter to them that I said that I wasn’t one of those teachers. They were explaining to me their reality. I now understand that their words were a cry for help.

Many of you have been in the educational arena longer than I have and I sincerely salute you or that. Being in this environment has allowed me to see first hand how good teachers go through much and are under paid. Once again, I have much respect for you. Now with that being said, I need to, on the behalf of our “Now Generation”, address those in this field that may have forgotten the purpose and mission to which they promised to uphold. Please let me share some thoughts and concerns I have as an outsider. One of the things that pastoring a church has taught me, is that it’s always a good idea to have fresh eyes looking at what you are doing, so that you may know what is working and what is not. The late Dr. Myles Monroe said that when an individual or individuals, don’t understand the purpose of a thing, abuse is eminent. In other words, if I have a dvd player and I stuff it with paper, I am abusing it because it was not made to receive paper. If money is your only motivation for high enrollment, perfect attendance, and great test scores, then you are operating in abuse. You are abusing the student, the school, your degree, etc… I understand that abuse is a strong word to use but it’s time to walk in truth because it’s a LIFE and DEATH situation.

The purpose for setting up a learning institution, is so that every child can develop into their God given purpose. They are not in your building fill your pockets or bank accounts. Our children are not dollar signs. We have made final decisions especially concerning behavioral issues solely based on dollars and cents, instead of what would benefit the student. For example, I said earlier that ISS is a wonderful tool when used correctly. However, when you continue to place a student in ISS, even after seeing that it’s not working, ONLY for getting the attendance count for the money, you are doing a disservice to that child and not being honest with the parent. No good parent, sends their child to school so that your bank account can get bigger. They are entrusting you with their future. Let me say that again. They are entrusting you with their child’s future! 


This must change and if you choose not to change, you should strongly consider finding another profession or shutting your facility down. This type of mindset is no different than the drug dealer who influences our children to buy and sell drugs from and for them. How can you in good conscience tell your student, stay away from drug dealers, the ones who want to profit off them but then turn around and do the same thing. “Be here on time for school”, has now become the fuel of motivation for getting more by having warm bodies in the seats. This is some hard truth to take but our children are worth it. If answering our kid’s cry for help mean saying this, then so be it. Many of us have sons, daughters, sisters, brothers, nieces, and nephews in school right now. How would you feel is they were being treated like this? How would you feel if some educator didn’t see the potential but only dollars signs?